Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Friday, December 4, 2009

Was he insecure ?


He was happy. He was going to marry again. And she looked  good. They started slowly talking to each other. She wanted to speak to him every night before she went to sleep under her cosy quilt. They could not meet every day as they were time zones apart, but she had started feeling good about the upcoming big day.

He was hollow. He had loved somebody to core and had a painful heartbreak. He was wary, he was skeptical. He had doubts if ever he would be able to love her and would that be fair with her given no fault of hers.

He tried to talk the way every guy does with his girl, but he just could not. He was hollow and his wish to love had ended.  He just wanted to be happy like he was and wanted to be friendly with her before getting cosy.

Was he insecure ?

Was he insecure ?


He was happy. He was going to marry again. And she looked  good. They started slowly talking to each other. She wanted to speak to him every night before she went to sleep under her cosy quilt. They could not meet every day as they were time zones apart, but she had started feeling good about the upcoming big day.

He was hollow. He had loved somebody to core and had a painful heartbreak. He was wary, he was skeptical. He had doubts if ever he would be able to love her and would that be fair with her given no fault of hers.

He tried to talk the way every guy does with his girl, but he just could not. He was hollow and his wish to love had ended.  He just wanted to be happy like he was and wanted to be friendly with her before getting cosy.

Was he insecure ?

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Caution

The previous instance of the relationship had shaked him up to the core. Precisely to the reason he was cautious and grounded this time when the news came to him that he is going to marry somebody. He did not look for those usual set of questions which he always looked for finding if he had compatibility with the partner to be. He did not even look for any other factor. He just spoke once and took a chance.

A risk he hopes and he expects to come true this time. This point of time is the time when he has to get it right. He has to have his relationship successful this time. He believes that love is going to take a lot of time and evolving would be the key.

Caution

The previous instance of the relationship had shaked him up to the core. Precisely to the reason he was cautious and grounded this time when the news came to him that he is going to marry somebody. He did not look for those usual set of questions which he always looked for finding if he had compatibility with the partner to be. He did not even look for any other factor. He just spoke once and took a chance.

A risk he hopes and he expects to come true this time. This point of time is the time when he has to get it right. He has to have his relationship successful this time. He believes that love is going to take a lot of time and evolving would be the key.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Reciting the old memories.

In another note to her he wrote :

When you shall grow old and you would suffer a memory loss due to age, i shall read you the love notes and surreal moments of our courtship and the days we spent together madly in love.

That shall make you remember the good times we have had even in those days and then you shall fall in love with me all over again.

I shall whisper that in your ears day in and day out.

Reciting the old memories.

In another note to her he wrote :

When you shall grow old and you would suffer a memory loss due to age, i shall read you the love notes and surreal moments of our courtship and the days we spent together madly in love.

That shall make you remember the good times we have had even in those days and then you shall fall in love with me all over again.

I shall whisper that in your ears day in and day out.

Lovin thy partner

Reading through The Wedding gave him a message that loving your partner is the key to a long and fruiful marriage / relationship. Loving through good and bad times, thick and lean seasons, falls and autumns, springs and summers is one that keeps the bonding strong and sails through the ups and downs of the times and escapes the cracks and rusts of the length of time spent together.

And when you decide to love your partner, you do it out of your choice, the social and financial equations do not come in picture. What follows is selfless love.

He wrote to her in his first note after their marriage had entered rocky phase. He didnt know what the outcome of it would be. He wasnt much of hopeful, yet he gave it a try.

Lovin thy partner

Reading through The Wedding gave him a message that loving your partner is the key to a long and fruiful marriage / relationship. Loving through good and bad times, thick and lean seasons, falls and autumns, springs and summers is one that keeps the bonding strong and sails through the ups and downs of the times and escapes the cracks and rusts of the length of time spent together.

And when you decide to love your partner, you do it out of your choice, the social and financial equations do not come in picture. What follows is selfless love.

He wrote to her in his first note after their marriage had entered rocky phase. He didnt know what the outcome of it would be. He wasnt much of hopeful, yet he gave it a try.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Helpless

Jimmy was losing his sleep over Anky, his pretty 26 year old wife. She was getting drawn towards Pan, her colleague in her workplace. His every effort to stop her was futile. He didnt want to quit the relationship, but he had very little options left. He was stunned when he saw KANK with her in their good times. She had rubbished the movie, he had believed his life went the Abhishek Bachchan way.

She just didnt love him despite him being committed fully to Anky. It just stumped him. He once had a thought to grab Pan and thrash him left, right and center. He knew it wont work.

He was seeing his marriage crumble to an illicit illegal individual who was hell bent to take Anky away from him.

Helpless

Jimmy was losing his sleep over Anky, his pretty 26 year old wife. She was getting drawn towards Pan, her colleague in her workplace. His every effort to stop her was futile. He didnt want to quit the relationship, but he had very little options left. He was stunned when he saw KANK with her in their good times. She had rubbished the movie, he had believed his life went the Abhishek Bachchan way.

She just didnt love him despite him being committed fully to Anky. It just stumped him. He once had a thought to grab Pan and thrash him left, right and center. He knew it wont work.

He was seeing his marriage crumble to an illicit illegal individual who was hell bent to take Anky away from him.